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Fight or Flight response




To explain the fight-or-flight response triggered by an upsetting experience with another metaphor, let’s consider the process as a sophisticated security system within a castle.

Imagine your body as a grand, fortified castle. This castle is not just any ordinary structure; it’s equipped with the most advanced security system designed to protect it from any form of threat or invasion. The walls of the castle are tall and strong, built to withstand sieges and attacks. Within these walls lies the command center, a place where all decisions regarding the safety and well-being of the castle are made. This command center is overseen by vigilant guardians who are always on the lookout for potential dangers.


One day, a scout spots a threatening army approaching - this represents an upsetting experience in real life. The sight of this army triggers an immediate alarm within the command center. This alarm is akin to the amygdala in your brain recognizing a threat and signaling that something needs to be done.


Upon receiving this signal, the command center quickly evaluates the situation. It has two main options: to confront the invading army head-on (fight) or to secure valuable assets and evacuate to a safer location (flight). This decision-making process mirrors the hypothalamus in your brain assessing whether to stand ground and confront the stressor or to avoid it altogether.


Let’s say the command center decides it’s best to face the threat directly. Instantly, messengers (neurotransmitters) are sent throughout the castle, ordering archers (adrenaline) to take their positions on the walls and soldiers (cortisol) to ready themselves for battle. Gates are closed, and all resources are mobilized to ensure that the castle can withstand the siege. This mobilization represents your body’s physiological changes during the fight-or-flight response: increased heart rate, heightened senses, and a surge of energy - all aimed at preparing you to either fight or flee.


Alternatively, if fleeing is deemed the better option, messengers would direct efforts towards securing important documents and treasures, ensuring that all inhabitants know the escape routes, and then swiftly moving everyone to a predetermined safe location. In real life, this would translate into avoiding confrontation or removing oneself from a stressful situation as quickly as possible.


Throughout this ordeal, communication between the command center and scouts remains constant, adjusting strategies as needed until the threat has passed. Once it’s over, messengers are sent out once again to signal that it’s safe to return to normal operations - akin to your body gradually returning to its baseline state after the stressor has been removed.


In essence, just like a castle’s security system is designed to protect it from external threats through either confrontation or strategic withdrawal, your body’s fight-or-flight response serves as an innate mechanism geared towards ensuring your survival in face of perceived danger.

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